Inside Martin Gore and Kerrilee Kaski’s Private World: the Love Story Behind the Synth Legend
Touring at Depeche Mode's scale is physically and mentally grueling. The Memento Mori Tour, spanning 2023 and 2024, saw Gore and Gahan playing to millions across Europe and North America. Following the sudden passing of founding keyboardist Andy Fletcher in May 2022, the emotional weight of stepping onto those stages was heavier than ever.
For Gore, the anchor that kept the tour sustainable was Kaski and their California home. During tour breaks, Gore consistently bypassed after-parties to fly directly back to Santa Barbara. The contrast between singing to 65,000 weeping fans in Berlin and driving his daughters to elementary school 36 hours later provides an essential equilibrium.
Depeche Mode fan communities on Reddit and dedicated forums frequently discuss Gore’s youthful energy and clear focus on stage. Many longtime listeners attribute his vocal strength and sunny disposition during live performances to his domestic contentment. In a genre littered with casualties of 1980s excess, Gore stands out as an artist who built an enduring fortress around his health and his family.